How to Choose Your First Sex Toy:
A Judgment-Free Guide for Edmonton & Beyond
So you've been curious. Maybe for a while. Maybe you've Googled a few things, closed a few tabs, and wondered where to even start. You're not alone and you're absolutely in the right place.
Whether you're brand new to adult toys or just looking to branch out into something different, choosing your first (or next) toy can feel overwhelming. There are so many options. Shapes, sizes, materials, features, price points. It's a lot.
This guide is here to cut through the noise. No judgment. No pressure. Just honest, helpful advice from Edmonton's own Mommys Toy Shop, where we've helped thousands of local customers (and customers across Canada and the US) find exactly what they're looking for.
Start With the Most Important Question: What Kind of Stimulation Are You Looking For?
This is where most first-timers get tripped up. They browse by product type without thinking about what feels good to them. Here's a simple breakdown:
External stimulation (clitoral, penile, or surface-level pleasure): This is where most beginners feel most comfortable starting. Bullet vibrators, wand massagers, and clitoral suction toys fall into this category. They're easy to use, easy to clean, and non-intimidating.
Internal stimulation (G-spot, prostate, or penetrative): Dildos, internal vibrators, and prostate massagers are designed for internal use. If you're new to this, start with something small and body-safe.
Dual stimulation (both at once): Rabbit-style vibrators and some couples' toys offer both. These are popular for a reason — but if you're brand new, you might want to get comfortable with one type first.
Couples' toys: Designed to be used with a partner during sex. Wearable vibrators and remote-controlled toys have exploded in popularity, especially since they can be discreetly controlled via an app.
Material Matters More Than You Think
This is something a lot of beginner guides skip over and it really shouldn't. The material your toy is made from affects not just how it feels, but how safe it is for your body.
Body-safe materials to look for:
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Silicone - soft, non-porous, easy to clean, and hypoallergenic. The gold standard.
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ABS plastic - firm, non-porous, great for precise stimulation
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Stainless steel / glass — temperature-play friendly, ultra-smooth, non-porous
Materials to be cautious with:
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Rubber, jelly, or "realistic skin" materials - these are often porous (meaning bacteria can hide in them), and many contain phthalates. If you go this route, always use a condom on the toy.
At Mommys Toy Shop, we prioritize stocking body-safe options. When in doubt, just ask us. That's what we're here for.
Vibration Settings: More Isn't Always Better
When you're new, it's tempting to think the toy with the most settings and highest intensity wins. But actually, the quality of the vibration matters more than the quantity of settings.
Rumbly vibrations are deeper and felt internally, many people find these more satisfying and less fatiguing.
Buzzy vibrations are surface-level and fast, some love them, some find them numbing over time.
Most products will mention this in their descriptions. If you're shopping in-store or asking us online, we can point you in the right direction based on what you're looking for.
Beginners Sex Toys
Discreet Shopping: Your Privacy is Our Priority
We know that for many people, the how of buying an adult toy matters just as much as the what. That's why we've built our whole business model around discretion.
In Edmonton: We offer same-day, 1-hour delivery right to your door. Our packaging is completely plain, nothing on the outside indicates what's inside. We accept cash, debit, and all major credit cards.
Across Canada & the US: We ship discreetly with plain packaging. No embarrassing labels, no surprises on your credit card statement.
In-store: Our shop is a welcoming, judgment-free space. Our staff are knowledgeable and friendly, we've helped everyone from curious first-timers to seasoned enthusiasts. You'll never feel rushed or judged here.
Budget: What Should You Actually Spend?
You don't need to spend a fortune on your first toy. But you also don't want to go too cheap, very inexpensive toys are often made with lower-quality materials and motors.
A solid starting range is $40–$90 CAD for a quality beginner toy. In that range, you'll find excellent options from trusted brands like Satisfyer, We-Vibe, CalExotics, and Lovense.
If you want to invest in something that will last years and feel premium, the $100–$200 CAD range opens up brands like Lelo, Womanizer, and We-Vibe's higher-end lineup.
We carry options across all price ranges and we're always running promotions, so check our site or give us a call.
A Few Tips Before You Buy
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Read reviews - Real customer reviews are gold. We encourage our customers to leave honest feedback.
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Start smaller - You can always upgrade. Starting with something more manageable builds confidence.
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Buy lube - Seriously. Even if you think you won't need it, a good quality lubricant makes everything better and protects your toys (just make sure it's compatible, water-based lube with silicone toys).
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Clean your toy before AND after use - Most toys come with cleaning instructions. Follow them. A toy cleaner spray is a great investment.
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Ask us - We're available 24 hours. If you're not sure what to get, reach out. We love helping people find exactly what they're looking for.
Ready to Explore?
Whether you're in Edmonton looking for fast, discreet delivery in under an hour, or you're anywhere in Canada or the US looking for quality adult toys shipped right to your door, Mommys Toy Shop has you covered.
📞 Call or text us: 780-203-7588
🌐 Shop online: mommystoyshop.com
🚚 Edmonton delivery: Within 1 hour, 24 hours a day
🏪 In-store hours: Monday–Friday, 12pm–8pm
No judgment. Just good vibes. 😊