Most Common Questions We Get in the Sex Shop (Answered Simply)
- M&H
- 5 days ago
- 8 min read
Running an adult shop means you hear every kind of question. The shy ones. The curious ones. The whispered ones. The blunt ones. The panicked ones that start with “please don’t laugh but…” and the excited ones that start with “okay so I saw this thing on TikTok.”
People walk into Mommys Toy Shop with one goal. They want something to feel better. More connection. More pleasure. More confidence. More clarity. Less stress. Less guessing. Less awkwardness.
Some questions are practical. Others are funny, weird, or completely unexpected. All of them are normal. That is why we are here. So let’s make this easy and a little fun. Jump to a question
Does this toy come with a quiet mode for when my kids are home
Will this suction toy actually suction to the wall like in the movies
If I buy this, does it come with batteries or do I need to raid the TV remote
Can I bring my partner in so you can convince them this is not scary
Can you pick me up a pack of smokes or booze
1. What toy should I start with if I’m new to all of this
People overthink this question a lot. The truth is simple. You want something small, soft, and not overwhelming. Think of it like starting a new hobby. You begin with the basics, not the most advanced thing on the shelf.
Beginner friendly picks:
You do not need experience to enjoy pleasure. You just need a toy that feels approachable.
2. Can I test it out here or try it on in the store
Yes, people ask this seriously. No, you cannot try toys on your body in store. You can feel them in your hand, test vibration patterns in your palm, or see how a harness fits over clothing. Anything beyond that belongs at home. The fun part happens privately.
3. What is the best toy for couples
There is no single best. There are categories that work well depending on what you want.
Couples usually love:
The best couples toy is the one that makes things feel easier, not stressful.
4. Is this loud or will my roommate know
Extremely common question. Many people live with roommates or have thin apartment walls. Most toys today are quieter than people expect. A pillow, blanket, or white noise app helps too. You are not alone in wanting privacy.
5. Will I become addicted if I use it too much
People really fear this. No, you will not become addicted. Pleasure is not a substance. Toys do not overpower your natural ability to feel. They can make things easier, faster, or more consistent but you will not lose the ability to enjoy your partner or your own body without them.
6. What is the biggest dildo you have
Yes, this gets asked loudly, softly, fearfully, and proudly. We carry everything from small beginner sizes to advanced fantasy pieces. If you want to explore large toys, choose body safe silicone, warm up slowly, and use more lube than you think. Size exploration is fine as long as you listen to your body.
7. Do you carry Viagra or anything like it
Adult shops in Canada cannot sell prescription erectile medications. Those must come from a pharmacist or doctor.
What we can offer:
These are not prescription replacements, but they absolutely help with performance anxiety and sensation.
8. Can you help me try it out when it arrives on delivery
This one is asked more often than you would imagine. Our drivers deliver your order. That is the full extent of the service. They do not assist with setup, demonstration, or usage. We can answer questions in store or through messages but the trying out happens privately.
9. Do you sell poppers
Another very common question. In Canada, poppers are regulated as consumer chemical products and cannot legally be sold in adult shops. We do not stock them, and any business that does is taking legal risks. We prefer to follow regulations and keep customers safe.
10. Which toys are solo and which are for couples
Any toy can be a couples toy if you use it together. The difference is intention, not category.
Common couples favorites include:
external vibes that are easy to position
But honestly, a simple bullet can be one of the most versatile couples toys on the planet.
11. Do toys replace partners
Short answer: no. Long answer: absolutely not. Toys make intimacy easier, more consistent, and less stressful. They support areas where human bodies get tired or distracted. Most couples who use toys together communicate better and enjoy each other more.
12. Is it weird to buy a bunch of toys or multiple types
Not at all. People collect sensations the way others collect candles, sneakers, or hobbies. Variety is normal. Different toys offer different angles, rhythms, and feelings. There is no right or wrong number of toys to own.
13. Is it normal that I do not finish easily
Completely normal. Pleasure is influenced by stress, hormones, comfort, rhythm, stimulation type, and so much more. Some people need consistent pressure, some need clitoral stimulation, some need longer warm up.
If you have ever felt broken, you are not. You simply have not found your combination yet.
14. Why do people talk so much about the clitoris
Because biology matters. Most vulva owners do not orgasm from penetration alone. Clitoral stimulation is the main pleasure source for the majority of people. This is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. That is why small external toys change lives.
15. Which lubricants are best
Water based is beginner friendly and toy safe. Silicone lasts longer and feels smoother. Hybrid gives you the best of both.
Good lube is not optional. It improves pleasure, reduces friction, and makes everything feel more comfortable.
16. Is this going to hurt
Pleasure should not hurt. Pain usually comes from the wrong size, not enough lube, or not enough warm up. We help you choose toys that match your comfort level and anatomy. Your body should feel safe, not pressured.
17. Can toys get stuck
Only if the toy is not designed for internal play. Anything meant for the body will have a base, handle, or retrieval cord. If it does not, we will tell you. Safety is part of the experience.
18. Do straight men use toys
Yes. More than ever. Strokers, prostate toys, rings, and sleeves have become incredibly popular. Pleasure is universal and not limited by identity.
19. Why is this toy so expensive
Quality materials, motor strength, body safe silicone, durability, and warranties all factor in. You are not paying for branding. You are paying for safety and improved sensation.
20. Can I bring a friend if I’m shy
Absolutely. Many people do. You can also shop alone, message us privately, or book a quieter time. Your comfort comes first.
21. Is it weird that I don’t know how to turn it off
Not weird at all. Every toy has a different button pattern. Sometimes the off switch is a long press, sometimes it is a double tap. If you cannot figure it out, just ask. You are not the first and will not be the last.
22. What if the toy I pick does not work for my body
Then we help you choose differently next time. A lot of pleasure is about trial, error, and learning your rhythm. A wrong toy is not a failure. It is information.
23. Can I return it if I do not like it
Hygiene laws in Canada do not allow returns once a toy leaves the store. This is why we take time to guide you carefully before you buy.
24. Do you have anything that will bring the spark back
Yes. Sometimes it is a couples ring. Sometimes it is lube. Sometimes it is a toy that adds novelty or comfort. Most people do not lose the spark. They lose the routine.
25. What is everyone secretly buying
Suction toys. Always suction toys. They are whispered about like forbidden magic, and for many people they absolutely are.
26. Does this toy come with a quiet mode for when my kids are home
Yes. It is called a blanket, a pillow, and pretending you dropped something on the floor while it’s vibrating. Many toys are naturally quiet, but some people want absolute stealth. We get it.
27. Will this suction toy actually suction to the wall like in the movies
People ask this with pure hope. Some toys can stick to a wall or shower tile, but not at the angle gravity wants you to try. We will save you from learning that lesson the hard way.
28. Can you tell if someone has used a toy too much
No. There is no mileage tracker on your body. Your body does not keep score. Nobody knows your usage except you and maybe your charger.
29. If I buy this, does it come with batteries or do I need to raid the TV remote
A classic. Most modern toys are rechargeable now, but yes, a surprising number of people still steal batteries from remotes like raccoons in the night.
30. Can I bring my partner in so you can convince them this isn’t scary
Lots of people ask us to be their wingman. We can explain how a toy works and why it is helpful, but we cannot perform relationship counseling in aisle three. We will, however, cheer you on the whole time.
31. Can you pick me up a pack of smokes or booze
Yes, people actually ask this. And as much as we love going the extra mile, our drivers are not a convenience store on wheels. They deliver your order from Mommys Toy Shop and that is their full job. No cigarette runs, no grocery detours, no “while you’re out anyway” errands.
If you need smokes, snacks, or energy drinks, those still come from the corner store. We stick to the spicy stuff.
Pleasure Should Feel Fun, Not Confusing
People walk into Mommys Toy Shop feeling shy, excited, nervous, curious, or overwhelmed. They walk out feeling informed, empowered, and ready to explore. Your questions are normal. Your desires are valid. Your curiosity deserves real answers without judgment.
We have heard it all. Nothing surprises us. Nothing embarrasses us. This is a safe space for every question you have ever wanted to ask.
If you prefer privacy, we offer one hour delivery in Edmonton and discreet shipping across Canada. If you want guidance, come see us in store or message us anytime.
Your pleasure matters. Your comfort matters. And your questions will always be welcome here.
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