Blowjobs are a classic source of pleasure that many men adore. But as women, we often wonder: How do my skills measure up? What do men truly enjoy most? Do you need to perform like a star in a movie to leave a lasting impression? After gathering expert insights, here are the ultimate tips to take your oral skills to the next level and make every experience unforgettable.
1. Foreplay: Set the Mood for Maximum Anticipation
While men tend to get turned on quickly, many actually enjoy prolonged foreplay more than we think. Sure, a quick BJ can be thrilling, but a slow, teasing buildup adds more excitement and leads to an even bigger finish.
Send a sexy text during the day.
Whisper something naughty in his ear when you're out together.
Build anticipation by lightly massaging him through his pants or caressing his thigh.
2. Tease Him: Keep Him on Edge
Before diving in, create a sensual buildup:
Kiss your way from his lips to his neck and down his body.
Explore his erogenous zones like his thighs or gently tickle his balls.
Let your fingertips or tongue barely graze his penis to heighten the tension.
3. Kissing: A Versatile Tool
Kissing isn't just romantic; it's practical during oral.
Use it to tease, take a breather, or reset if he’s close to climaxing.
Experiment with quick pecks, deep kisses, or wet, sloppy ones for variety.
4. Blowing: Add a Cooling Sensation
Use your tongue to wet his shaft, then gently blow on it to create a cooling effect. This simple yet powerful technique will leave him squirming in delight.
5. Target the Frenulum: A Sensitive Spot
Focus on the underside of the tip of his penis, known as the frenulum.
Flick your tongue in circles, up and down, or side to side on this area to heighten his pleasure.
(Note: For circumcised men, the frenulum may be less prominent or removed.)
6. Keep It Wet: The Golden Rule
Saliva is your best friend for a pleasurable experience.
Take breaks to keep your mouth hydrated.
Use a mint or a water-based lubricant for added slickness and sensation.
Remember: There’s no such thing as too much wetness during oral play.
7. Hands-On Action
Your hands can enhance the experience:
Stroke the base of his shaft while focusing on the tip.
Gently massage or suck on his balls.
Try stimulating other sensitive areas like the perineum or even his nipples if he enjoys it.
8. Experiment with Positions
Oral doesn’t have to mean kneeling on the floor. Explore creative positions for comfort and variety.
9. Don’t Be Afraid to Suck
Men often climax from firmer stimulation, so don’t shy away from applying a bit more pressure with your lips. Communicate to ensure it feels good for him.
10. Master the Art of Edging
Take him to the edge of climax, then stop and let him cool down before starting again. This technique builds incredible intensity and leads to a euphoric, full-body orgasm.
11. Prostate Stimulation: The Ultimate Pleasure
For men open to it, prostate stimulation can deliver mind-blowing orgasms. Whether you use toys or fingers, always communicate beforehand to ensure comfort and consent.
12. Incorporate Toys
Vibrators and other toys aren’t just for women. Try stimulating his perineum or the shaft with a vibrator while performing oral to elevate his pleasure.
13. Mind the Teeth
Avoid scraping with your teeth. If you’re struggling, use your lips as a barrier or focus on techniques that don’t involve deep penetration.
14. Deepthroating: Optional, Not Essential
Not everyone is comfortable with deepthroating, and that’s okay! Amazing oral pleasure doesn’t require this technique. Do what feels best for you and your partner.
15. Take Your Time
Relax and enjoy the process. Rushing or asking him if he’s close can create performance anxiety. Let things flow naturally for a better experience.
16. Show Enthusiasm
Moaning, eye contact, and verbal affirmations of how much you’re enjoying yourself can be incredibly arousing for your partner.
17. Listen to His Body
Pay attention to his responses:
Changes in breathing, gasps, or moans are signs you’re doing something right.
Pre-cum or a throbbing shaft means he’s very happy!
18. Follow Through
Don’t stop stimulation as soon as he starts to climax. Let him enjoy the full intensity of his orgasm before gently finishing.
Bonus Tip: Practice Makes Perfect Blowjobs
The key to unforgettable oral is confidence and enthusiasm. Use these tips, experiment, and communicate with your partner to create an experience you’ll both enjoy.
Ready to level up your bedroom game? Dive in, have fun, and turn up the heat!
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