So now that you’ve chatted with your partner and decided to dive into butt stuff - what's next? Get your goodies & materials ready. Set the mood with some music, candles - whatever vibes for you and your partner(s).
Butt stuff, especially for men, seems to be a ‘taboo’ topic. That’s just silly - there’s nothing weird, unusual, or wrong with men wanting to explore their prostate and anal play! It’s a natural and fun part of human sexuality.
Pegging can at first elicit some feelings of anxiety on both sides - remember this is completely normal! It’s not everyday you strap on an extra appendage to use to fuck someone! For the person being penetrated there can be anxiety about what they're going to feel in terms of sensations, lack of control or climax uncertainty. All that being said, there can be some nerves about pain & hygiene (totally natural), hesitations etc when you start exploring anally. So keep the communication flowing, take your time, a few deep breaths - and ease your way in! No need to jump in the deep end immediately if that doesn’t feel right to you. But if it does then by all means! Everyone is different, and so much can affect a sexual experience. So if it isn’t butterflies and rainbows the first time that’s a-ok. Press pause and come back to pegging another day, with no firm expectations other than enjoying each other's bodies. Orgasms are a wonderful part of sex, but by no means the only acceptable outcome!
Our bodies are capable of soooo many positions sexually. My personal preference when it comes to pegging is to have my partner on their back, so I can watch their facial expressions, hear their sounds clearly - and use that feedback to give them an absolutely mind blowing, ball emptying, magical prostate experience. That being said, doggy style is a great time for more experienced peggers! Different angles, the possibility of the ‘anonymous’ - who’s behind you kind of fun! Just remember to hold off on fully penetrating your partner when you are BOTH happy and ready, ease in slowly and be ready to adjust your movements to ensure your partners comfort and safety. Go forth and peg happily, wildly, and safely!
