The Best Women-Run Sites for Pleasure, Sex Toys & Real Talk (2025)
- M&H
- Aug 26
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 9
Why This List Matters
The sex-positive space is booming — pleasure products alone are projected to surpass $54 billion globally by 2027. Yet despite the growth, women-run voices remain underrepresented in mainstream conversations about sex, intimacy, and empowerment.
That’s where these creators come in. They don’t just sell toys or share tips — they shape culture. From Detroit to Edmonton, from personal healing to performance art, these women are building platforms that challenge shame, celebrate desire, and spark conversations worth having.
This roundup highlights women-run blogs, podcasts, and creative spaces that put pleasure first.
Placement note: Creators appear in alphabetical order for easy browsing. Every name here stands on its own. This isn’t a ranking.
Digital Lifestyle & Spice
Ashley Elizabeth - Where Relatability Meets Spice
Run by: Ashley Elizabeth — Edmonton-based content creator and rising voice in Canada’s digital creator scene.
Based in: Edmonton, Alberta, with an audience spanning YouTube, TikTok, and her 🌶 platforms.
What’s unique: Ashley’s work blends approachable charm with a confident, unapologetic embrace of self-expression and sexuality. She’s built a loyal following by being real, funny, and fearless—sharing everything from lifestyle moments to playful, spicy content that invites her audience into her world without filters. Whether she’s making you laugh, think, or blush, Ashley’s ability to connect across platforms makes her stand out in a crowded creator space. Her fans love her for her mix of down-to-earth relatability and sultry edge, making her content both binge-worthy and buzz-worthy.
Perfect for: Followers who crave authenticity alongside a bit of thrill—whether you’re into lifestyle content, playful banter, or creators who aren’t afraid to push the envelope.
Visit: linktr.ee/Yunging19
“Approachable, fearless, and binge-worthy — that’s Ashley.”
Performance & Artistry
Dance Naked Creative – Radical, Joyful, and Sex-Positive Theater
Run by: Eleanor O’Brien — award-winning artistic director, performer, and unapologetic sex-positive storyteller.
Based in: Canada, with regular tours across the country’s biggest fringe festivals, including Montreal, Toronto, Vancouver, Winnipeg, and Edmonton.
What’s unique: Eleanor’s work doesn’t just talk about sexuality—it revels in it. She blends humor, ritual, and radical inclusion to create theatrical experiences that invite the audience into a world where desire is celebrated, not shamed. Her signature show series, Plan V, imagines a future of empowered goddess worship, brought to life through immersive multimedia, bold storytelling, and interactive performance. From playful seduction to soul-deep intimacy, her shows dismantle stigma, spark curiosity, and inspire self-discovery. Critics have called her a “sex-positive superstar” and a “visionary” who makes the revolution irresistible, while audiences leave feeling seen, turned on, and empowered.
Perfect for: Lovers of immersive theater, queer feminist narratives, erotic comedy, and fearless explorations of pleasure. If you’re drawn to performance art that challenges taboos while keeping you laughing, blushing, and maybe even participating, Eleanor’s work belongs on your must-see list.
Visit: dancenakedcreative.com
Critics call her a “sex-positive superstar” who makes the revolution irresistible.
Miss Ruby Reviews – Pleasure. No Apologies.
Run by: Ruby (she/her), pleasure-product reviewer, pleasure advocate, and one of “the top 5 sex toy review blogs” in the world, based in Canada and a founding member of the Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers .
What makes her unique: Miss Ruby doesn’t just test toys—she unpacks desire, breaks down the stigma, and gives you honest, body-positive insight. Whether it’s your first vibe or a high-end luxury piece, she treats each product with intelligence, humor, and care. Her reviews are thorough, warm, and genuine. You’ll trust her opinion like you’d trust a friend dishing on secrets.
What she’s known for: Trustworthiness, clarity, and realness. Ruby lays it all on the table—pros, cons, slickness, washability—with voice and integrity. She’s not into marketing fluff; she’s into what actually enhances your pleasure.
Perfect for: Anyone who wants smart, unpretentious guidance on pleasure gear. Her readers span newbies, queer folks, kink communities, and fetish lovers. If you want a review that respects your body and your curiosity, Ruby’s your go-to.
Visit: missrubyreviews.com
“Smart, unpretentious guidance on pleasure gear.” – Reader testimonial
Product Reviews & Science of Pleasure
Super Smash Cache – Cervix Sorcery Meets Sex-Positive Science
Run by: Cy (award‑winning sex toy reviewer, “cervix sorceress”)
Based in: Detroit
About: Cy from Super Smash Cache is a pillow princess with a penchant for deep penetration — especially spellbinding cervix massage — and all kinds of vaginal hot-spot sorcery, kinky but also making vanilla a spice again. She's tried over a thousand sex toys and wants to bring you the best for your body, because you deserve to feel good and come as you are.
Why People Love It:
Cy isn’t generic: she blends her background in biology and modeling for reviews that are both real and revealing
The site is designed for deep‑dive pleasure seekers—nothing vanilla, all deliciously detailed
Transparent business model—affiliate links, sponsored posts, and banner ads all done on her terms, without compromising authenticity
Visit: super smash cache
Contact: supersmashcache@gmail.com
Follow on Instagram: @supersmashcache (primary) / @smash.click (backup)
“Your cervix deserves as much attention as your clit — and I’ll show you how.” – Cy
Healing & Voice
TFoundHerVoice – Unmuted, Unapologetic, Unafraid
Based in: Edmonton, Alberta
Run by: Tanya T (speaker, model, mental healtadvocate, and creator of Deep Throat Conversations)
About: Tanya created TFoundHerVoice out of her own journey of healing, survival, and reclaiming voice after sexual abuse trauma. What started as personal storytelling has evolved into a platform that challenges stigma around mental health, sexuality, and intimacy — especially within the Black community. Through raw dialogue series like Deep Throat Conversations, body inclusivity events, and community collaborations, Tanya creates spaces where authenticity, vulnerability, and empowerment thrive.
Why People Love It: Tanya’s work is rooted in lived experience — deeply personal, yet universally relatable. Bold events like Deep Throat Conversations break the silence on taboo topics with honesty and humour. A bridge between mental health advocacy and sex-positive dialogue, spotlighting voices often left unheard.
Visit: tfoundhervoice.com
Contact: tfoundhervoice@gmail.com
Follow on Instagram: @tfoundhervoice
“Healing is messy, funny, brave, and ours to reclaim.” – Tanya T
Closing Thoughts
Pleasure isn’t a luxury; it’s part of well-being. These women are rewriting the script with authenticity, humor, and boldness.
💬 Your turn: Who else should be on this list? Drop their name in the comments. We’ll keep building this living archive of women-run sex-positive spaces.
I am SO honored to be included in this list! Thank you so much for recognizing a sex-positive theater maker as someone to be included. I am truly trying to change the world, one show at a time. I greatly appreciate the support! (And am currently taking Plan V to the Vancouver fringe, if you know anyone out west!)